LOVE AND THE POWER OF WORDS

𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝, 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞, 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬

1. WORDS THAT ASSURE 

These are words that give confidence to your spouse. They give your spouse security and clarity and once that exists, your spouse will invest all she/he has with you. Words such as "I am blessed to have you", "I love us", "We are really good together"

2. WORDS THAT BRING DOUBT

These words plant seeds of uncertainty in your spouse, they make you spouse uncertain about a future with you, making your spouse begin to withdraw and hold back and even feel used. Words such as "My mom warned me about marrying you", "I want a divorce", "I regret ever meeting you"

3. WORDS THAT AROUSE

These words are flirtatious and suggestive designed to arouse your spouse. Words such as "I am horny", "I miss kissing you", "I want you so bad", "That dress looks so good on you, can't wait to remove it". When your spouse speaks these words to you, kindly respond back and participate with the flirting 

4. WORDS THAT INSPIRE

These words motivate and encourage your spouse to be better or to pursue his/her dreams. Words such as "I believe in you", "You can do this", "I am proud of you" keep your spouse going 

5. WORDS THAT DEMEAN

These words make your spouse feel less of a person, belittled and disrespected; words such us "You can be so foolish", "Did you really go to school?", "What does someone like you know?", "You need to go back to your mother to teach you how to be a wife?", "No wonder your exes left you"

6. WORDS THAT MEAN WELL BUT SAID WITH A BAD TONE

You could be saying words that need to be said or a correction that is needed but it comes off as rude because of your tone or lack of courtesy. Words such as "Move, I need to pass", "Can't you do something better with your time?", "You look fat" can bruise based on delivery

7. WORDS THAT SHOW SPITE

These words spoken make your spouse feel like you are fed up, jealous and thinking ill thoughts of your spouse. Words such as "Mmmh... So you think you are special just because you got a job?", "Mscheew, you cannot do anything good", "I have loved other men better than you" do so much harm 

8. WORDS THAT TRIGGER FIGHTS 

These are provocative words spoken that easily lead to arguments and disagreements especially on sensitive topics. Some people can't go for a week without starting fights, they thrive on conflict. Avoid these words, don't pick up fights

9. WORDS THAT BRING COMFORT

These are words you tell a hurting spouse and they show empathy, words such as "It will be OK", "I am here for you", "We will pull through this together" bring about healing 

10. WORDS THAT ARE LONGED TO BE HEARD 

These are words that your spouse would love to receive from you but for some reason you are not saying them, words such as "I love you", "I am sorry", "You are my priority, not my friends". Don't deny your spouse a chance to hear love

11. WORDS THAT IGNITE CONVERSATIONS

These words prompt your spouse to open up and talk. Words such as "How was your day?", "What is your dream in life?", "How do you feel about this?" get you talking 

12. WORDS THAT SPEAK LIFE

These are words that declare the greatness of your spouse. Words such as "You will do great things", "The world will one day know how amazing you are" are prayers 

13. WORDS THAT END FIGHTS 

These words are for peacemakers.  Words such as "I don't like it when we fight", "Why don't we make up? ", "What can I do to make things better?" soothe the soul

Words are powerful, they make or break a relationship. Words once spoken cannot be taken 

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙨 𝙇𝙖𝙙𝙮'𝙨 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝘾𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙘

𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫

𝐊𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐲 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞, 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞, 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩.